Feminists if we still live in a patriarchal society then why ...?

is violence against men / boys and humiliation of men and boys so widely accepted by society but violence and humiliation of women are seen as taboo? In the media violence against men is seen as comedic and deserved but violence against women is seen as evil . Also this video shows that humiliation and assault of a young boy is just seen as a mere prank by police a href="http://youtu.be/Fzen8gqz8Ug" rel="nofollow"http://youtu.be/Fzen8gqz8Ug/a and as the mother said if her son had done that to a girl the police would have been on her doorsteps in no time. Feminists are not fooling me modern western society is completely anti male and men are now are always treated like garbage and women are put on pedestals. It is partly true that violence against men is not seen as serious because there are a lot of men in law enforcement that see women as weaker and more innocent than men but you have to admit that violence and humiliation of men greatly increased with the introduction of feminism.