Why is mental abuse towards men so taboo?women have so many help lines, men 0 we need help to?

I agree. My husband was the victim of abuse too. He was like a beat dog with his tail between his legs when I met him. Poor guy. My suggestion to you would be to call a few of the 'help lines' listed for women and ask about programs for men. You may be pleasantly surprised. Good Luck to you.