Crush on an older man?

I will be honest here, you are 19 he is approaching 40. Now there are many guys who would see you as the jackpot because you are young and they want someone to boost their ego. A tiny minority MAY oversee your age and want you for legit reasons. I think it depends on your maturity, where you are at in life, what you want out of life, and what he wants. Do you have alot in common? How often have you spent time with him? I think if he is serious, he needs to be careful he isnt using you for the wrong reasons. He is 38, most guys are settled and married at that age, typically in life. Why isnt he?? Find out more about him and who he is, before jumping into the unknown. You are young after all and have your whole life ahead of you.